How Do You Measure a Life?
What are you using to measure your life?
It's a question most of us don't think about very often.
We measure things all the time. A ruler tells us how long something is. A scale tells us how much something weighs. A clock tells us how much time has passed.
But how do you measure a life?
Our culture has plenty of answers.
Measure it by your income.
Measure it by the size of your house.
Measure it by the car you drive.
Measure it by your career.
Measure it by your accomplishments.
Measure it by your followers.
Measure it by your influence.
Measure it by what other people think about you.
The problem is that we can spend our entire lives becoming successful according to a measurement that God never gave us.
The Wrong Ruler
A ruler can tell you the size of something.
But it can't tell you its value.
Two shoes can be the same size but have completely different quality and value. Two houses can be the same size but provide completely different experiences. Two people can have similar outward success while living very different lives.
Size and value are not the same thing.
Yet we often confuse the two.
A bigger house must mean a better life.
A bigger bank account must mean a better life.
More followers must mean more influence.
A bigger platform must mean a bigger impact.
More recognition must mean more significance.
But Jesus challenged that entire way of thinking.
Jesus Challenged the Way We Measure Life
In Luke 12, someone asked Jesus to settle a dispute over an inheritance.
Jesus responded by warning them about greed and then made a statement that cuts directly against the way our culture often thinks:
“Life is not measured by how much you own.”
Jesus then told the story of a wealthy man whose land produced an abundant crop.
The man already had plenty.
But he didn't have enough room for everything he had.
So he decided to tear down his barns and build bigger ones.
Then he could finally relax.
He had accumulated enough to feel secure.
Except there was a problem.
He had spent his life accumulating things while neglecting his relationship with God.
Jesus wasn't teaching that possessions are evil.
The problem wasn't that the man had a successful business.
The problem was that he had allowed what he possessed to become the ruler by which he measured his life.
And that's an important distinction.
Possessions are not the problem. Possessions are a terrible ruler.
There is nothing inherently wrong with wanting a nice home, driving a good vehicle, building a successful business, making money, or enjoying the blessings God has given you.
But none of those things can tell you the value of your life.
Enough Never Arrives
One of the strange things about constantly pursuing more is that enough never seems to arrive.
You finally get the house you wanted.
Then you start thinking about the next house.
You finally get the vehicle you've dreamed about.
Then another vehicle comes along.
You reach a financial goal.
Then the goal moves.
You gain followers.
Then you want more followers.
You receive recognition.
Then you need more recognition.
You accomplish something you've worked toward for years, only to discover that the accomplishment didn't completely satisfy you.
That's because the human heart can turn almost anything into a measurement system.
More. More. More.
Our culture continually tells us that more is better.
But Jesus asks us to consider something deeper:
What if more isn't the same thing as meaningful?
What if gaining more doesn't necessarily mean you're living better?
What if you can gain everything you wanted and still lose what you were created for?
What Does It Profit You?
In Mark 8, Jesus asks another question:
“What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?”
Think about the magnitude of that question.
Jesus doesn't tell us that achievement is meaningless.
He asks us to consider the cost.
You can gain the world and still lose yourself.
You can become successful and still become empty.
You can build a career and neglect your family.
You can build a business and neglect your character.
You can build a platform and lose your integrity.
You can become known by thousands of people and still not be known by the people closest to you.
You can have everything people can see and still be missing what matters most.
That's why we need a better ruler.
God Measures Differently
In 1 Samuel 16, God sends Samuel to the house of Jesse to anoint Israel's next king.
Samuel sees Jesse's oldest son, Eliab.
He looks like the obvious choice.
He has the appearance.
He has the stature.
He has the presence.
But God tells Samuel something that has become one of the clearest reminders in Scripture that God's measurement system is different from ours:
“People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
People measure what they can see.
God measures the heart.
That doesn't mean outward things don't matter.
It means outward things aren't the ultimate measurement.
The world asks:
How successful are you?
God asks:
Who are you becoming?
The world asks:
How much do you have?
God asks:
What are you doing with what you've been given?
The world asks:
How many people know your name?
God asks:
Do you know Me?
The world measures visibility and status.
God measures faithfulness.
Who Are You Becoming?
This may be the more important question.
Who are you becoming?
When you don't get the promotion, who do you become?
When someone else receives the recognition you wanted, who do you become?
When you have less money than you hoped, who do you become?
When someone disagrees with you, who do you become?
When nobody is watching, who do you become?
Because your life isn't only being built by the things you accomplish.
It's being built by the person you become while you're accomplishing them.
You can pursue success without allowing success to define your worth.
You can build something meaningful without allowing what you build to become your identity.
You can desire more without believing that more will finally make you enough.
You can enjoy possessions without allowing possessions to become your measuring stick.
Faithfulness Matters
Faithfulness isn't always impressive.
It doesn't always get applause.
It isn't always visible.
But faithfulness builds a life.
Faithfulness in marriage.
Faithfulness in your work.
Faithfulness in your relationships.
Faithfulness in your calling.
Faithfulness with your finances.
Faithfulness with your family.
Faithfulness with what God has already placed in your hands.
Sometimes we're asking God for more while we're overlooking what He's already given us.
Maybe the question isn't simply, “When am I going to get more?”
Maybe the question is:
“What am I doing with what I have right now?”
Are you being faithful with the opportunity in front of you?
Are you becoming the person who can handle what you're asking God for?
Are you taking care of the things you've already been entrusted with?
Choose the Right Ruler
Eventually, we all have to decide what we're going to use as the measuring stick for our lives.
If you measure your life by money, you'll spend your life chasing money.
If you measure your life by recognition, you'll spend your life chasing recognition.
If you measure your life by possessions, you'll spend your life accumulating possessions.
If you measure your life by influence, you'll spend your life chasing influence.
What you use to measure your life determines what you spend your life pursuing.
That's why Jesus calls us to something better.
Not a life without ambition.
Not a life without achievement.
Not a life without possessions.
A life where those things are no longer the ruler.
A life where our relationship with God, our character, our faithfulness, and our purpose matter more than appearances.
So maybe it's time to ask yourself:
What am I using to measure my life?
And perhaps an even better question:
Who am I becoming?
Because the goal isn't simply to build a bigger life.
The goal is to build a life that is rich toward God.
Back 2 Sunday School at FaithPointe
This message is part of Back 2 Sunday School, a series designed to go back to some of the basic things we need to know as followers of Jesus.
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